Parent Wellbeing
Couples after children: the maintenance nobody schedules
Relationship satisfaction reliably dips after a first child. Knowing that in advance changes what you do about it.
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Sleep, patience, relationships and the person doing the parenting.
20 articles · updated August 11, 2026 · page 1 of 2
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You are allowed to not enjoy every stage
Some phases of parenting are genuinely harder and less rewarding than others. Saying so out loud is not a confession of failure.
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Going back to work: the first six weeks are the worst of it
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Single parenting is not two-parent parenting with someone missing
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Too much parenting advice is its own problem
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Fathers and partners get postnatal depression too, and get asked about it less
Screening and services are built around the birth parent. The other adult often has no appointment at which anyone asks, and the…